So I did try it today, I tried communicating with compassion in the method of NVC. I used observations instead of judgements, I thought of mine and others feelings and then I tried to unearth our needs, I finally made requests with good energy. I have some work to do, because this wasn't so much working for me. Maybe I was tired? Who knows, I have a lot of respect for the person who introduced me to NVC, so I'm sure there is something there. I just haven't found it yet.
Chris is currently beginning to sand the floors of our bedroom. If ever I would need to have a grasp of this NVC stuff, it's during the renovation process...that just seems to drag on and on.
Haha. Who did you try it out on? Work or personal? haha. I'm just imagining you talking like that. :)
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